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I have to tell you something I haven’t told anyone in the past twelve months.

I’ve been formulating something so special, so entertaining, and so valuable that I haven’t even told my own parents. I’ve had to keep it top secret for a reason. If any word got out, there would be pandemonium.

Let me communicate this to you in two words: “It’s finished.”

Sneak peak: http://www.charismakid.com

On Friday, September 10, 2010, the Bible on charisma is being released to families everywhere. This is the only book in the entire world that teaches you all of the top secret strategies to social skills, confidence, and charisma for you and your kids. This isn’t some fluffed up, general knowledge, rehashed piece of crap. This is something of mere perfection, and the beginning of a cultural revolution.

Where else can you find a guide to teach you and your family these in-depth conversation skills and through-the-roof confidence?  There hasn’t been anything like that since the beginning of time. Until now.

Let me tell you the story of how it all came to be…

One year ago to this day, an angel came down from heaven and asked me to write something that will put and end to bullying and shyness, and make Nintendo Wiis obsolete and boring. At that moment, my shoulder had been lightly pressed by the thumb of God. He looked down on me as I looked up at him. I then knew what I had to do.

I started writing for an entire year straight.  Night after night, making each sentence and each paragraph beautiful and perfect. A little bit of funny here, a little bit of serious here, and extremely inspiring and practical all-around. I wasn’t writing my thoughts, I was writing the will of the angels and all that is holy up above. I was writing something that had the potential to take a normal family and turn them into real-life superheroes. And I called it…

Charismatic Kid: The New Breed Of Superhero


Sneak peak: http://www.charismakid.com

I can’t even describe how potent the stuff in this book is. Your kid will be bringing joy to every person that he walks by. High-fiving new friends, shaking hands with grandpas, and hugging his siblings. September 10th can’t come soon enough.

The word “bully” is dead.

Charismatic Kids don’t know the meaning of “bully.” It is a word of the past. Something that kids of the 1900s had to deal with. There is no more, “sticking up for yourself,” because there is no lack of self-esteem to stand up for. When all your child feels is confidence and positivity, he doesn’t experience anger from others. This book shows you how to teach your kid this mindset.

There is no feeling of being “left out,” because your child is the one bringing kids together, not trying to fit in. This is not about teaching your kids “things to say” to make them seem confident. This is about a full perspective shift to literally make them confident.

Drag this link to your bookmarks bar above:
Click Here Sept. 10th
When this upcoming Friday rolls by, click that link! You will gain access to the website where you can get the book.

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Gemma’s Painting at 2 1/2 years old

Children’s greatest gift…

…is the freedom to create without being bound by previous lessons, facts, information, and self-imposed rules. They are aware and free to interpret their reality as they see fit. They choose not to color inside the lines. They choose to draw chipmunks with blue dots and dinosaurs with big bellies. They have the freedom to create exactly what is in their mind without a predisposed vision of how someone else has already created it. This is their greatest power.

Do your best to let them take advantage of it, because it’s the only time they’ll be able to think and observe this clearly without having a world of “mind stuff” to clutter their heads.






If kids aren’t working for the things you give them, they’ll grow up expecting everything for free. Instead, make them put effort into everything they receive.

They need to know that nothing but your love can come for free.

They want a cool new toy? It should be understood they have to help with the dishes after dinner for a week. Eventually your kid will be doing things on his/her own, and you can have more time to yourself.

This is not weird, this is how it should be.

The spoiled child revolution only started 20 years ago, and it’s obviously not working. Parents are notoriously known for being the most busy people on earth, and with good reason. But you can cut that work time down by simply teaching your kids to do things on their own, as long as it is safe and under your supervision.

RT @ResourcefulMom: and with that I think I just figured out how to have my four hour workweek.

Here are some easy responsibilities you can teach that are safe but still save you time:

  • Cleaning their room
  • Making their bed
  • Putting dishes away after dinner
  • Putting pajamas on
  • Putting socks and shoes on
  • Folding laundry and putting it in the dresser after you get it out of the dryer
  • Helping to prepare dinner
  • Washing hands
  • Getting dressed
  • Cleaning out the car
  • Doing homework without asking for help every 5 seconds
  • Answering the phone
  • Taking out the trash
  • Brushing teeth

See that Twitter link to your right? Tweet me more things you can teach your kid to do on your own, so YOU can have more time to do what you want. It sounds like it will take a while, and this is why parents are always doing things for their kids… to get things done quicker. Understandable. But here’s the truth: the learning curve starts off slowly, then slowly you’ll subtract yourself from the equation in each chore that they do. Frame responsibilities as something not as “momentous,” but something expected. Everything your children do is special, but there’s no need to act like chores are something out of the ordinary.

Does your boss applaud you for getting things in on time every day? At first, a reward is okay, but afterwards, what I call silent rewards can be given.

I’ll explain these at the free NYC Superhero Seminar in September. But for now, I’m going to take a cat nap while my kid is reading a book to herself.




I feel the dog you choose can help you to become more balanced as a person.

If I get a pitbull, aside from being beautiful, they are strong powerful dogs that are notoriously more aggressive than my original favorite golden retrievers. They need an emotionally strong and powerful person to deal with them. If you are emotionally weak, they will step all over you.

Same goes for the kid you have. If you are emotionally weak, your kid can step all over you. There is something to be said to nature deciding the general character of a person, but for the most part it is nurture. Some kids are naturally wild (like I was) and some are calm. How you decide to deal with their natural character is what is important.

If your kid is wild, and you are by nature calm and hippie-like, you will have to learn how to work with your child’s personality type. The same goes for an opposite situation. An energetic, animated, outgoing parent can end up overpowering their naturally calm child.

Just don’t mistake a child’s personality type for how you are treating him. Spoiled kids are prone to yell, fight, talk back, and rebel. Kids living with too many rules are prone to do the same, or just lay down and surrender.

Well-balanced parenting breeds well-balanced kids.

I can discuss all of this at the free Superhero Seminar in September, just remind me. I like this topic.




The most charismatic people in the world are the best listeners, because being charismatic is not about what you say—it’s about your ability to respond.

Don’t believe me?

Try having a conversation with your bedroom wall. How charismatic are you?

Charisma can’t happen if you are not taking the other person into consideration. The next time you’re having a conversation with someone, take a moment to think if what you’re saying could just as easily be said to that bedroom wall. If so, you’re not having an interaction—you’re just talking at yourself.




Somewhere right now, a perfectly happy three-year-old is being tricked.

She is given countless hours of TV time, a Wii, a toy robot that talks to her, and light up shoes; and life is fine. The addiction doesn’t come until those things are taken away from her, they go out of style, or are no longer fun to play with.

Once this happens, a void is created in her soul. She was tricked into believing that those things were her source of happiness, and now she needs them back again in order to feel better.

She sees a commercial for a new toy on TV and thinks that it will fill the void in her chest. Once she gets that toy, she is once again at equilibrium. A few weeks later the toy gets old, and she is back to the incomplete feeling she felt before. It’s an empty feeling of worthlessness—the same way a smoker would feel without his cigarette.


This is the epidemic going on in our world today.
What are YOU going to do about it?

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